Peacekeeper or rabble rouser?
This is where my life meets reflection, where everyday moments turn into something meaningful.
So, you're here. Let me tell you what got me started—the why behind these words, and my heart speaking through them.
One lazy afternoon, I sat on my couch, staring into space, wondering, “What’s next for me?” I wasn’t searching for grand answers, but a meaningful direction. And just then, an email popped up in my inbox. It was loud, almost screaming at me, and it struck something within. It promised a path that felt familiar and brand new all at once. A way to use what I’ve lived through—to help others find their way through their own storms. A chance to make even the dullest, most disconnected spaces come alive with stories.
Now, I’m usually cautious, overthinking, weighing pros and cons- a typical Libran! But sometimes, something inside me speaks louder than logic. This time, it practically yelled, “Do it. This is yours. Jump.” And I listened. Not because I had it all figured out, but because my gut wouldn’t let me ignore it.
I didn’t leap to become someone new. I took it to return to myself. Not for the person the world saw, but the deeper “why” of me. Why am I here? What do I truly bring to the table, and what do I want to be remembered for?
As I reflected, I realized that most of my life, I’ve been the peacekeeper. The safe space. The one who held others when they were falling apart. I’ve balanced chaos with calm, grief with love. But I’ve also been the rebel—chasing wild dreams, falling for the wrong people, making mistakes I now wear like badges of growth.
And here’s a memory that comes up now and then:
Once, in a deeply emotional conversation with someone close, I was asked: “You always knew what to say to calm my storm. How did you learn that?” I didn’t know how to explain that it came from walking through storms of my own, watching the people I loved suffer, and wanting nothing more than to ease their pain, even if just for a moment. That was my training ground.
I’ve also learned that being gentle doesn't mean you're weak. In fact, true strength often just sits quietly in the shadows, waiting for you to notice it. Today, I can say with honesty, I’m both. I’m the healing soul and the bold explorer. The calm presence and the daring voice. And this is what I bring to my stories.
Come along with me, and you'll find stories that hit you in just the right way—some to kick off your day with purpose, others to wind it down with a grin. We'll laugh, we'll maybe shed a tear that helps heal, and I guarantee they'll always be honest and from the heart. Who knows, you might even find bits of yourself in them.
As Rumi said,
“Don’t get lost in your pain, know that one day your pain will become your cure.”
From my heart to yours.